Wow! Getting someone to change is so hard! Why don’t they listen?
Most would say it is harder to change others than to change oneself. The truth is they are both very hard. Both can be very easy, as well. We will have discovered on our journey it is best to change some about ourselves, some about others, and some about both.
Focusing on how difficult it might seem to facilitate a change just slows us down. When a change simply does not happen, let it go. We then can consider it later.